“Working with Alyssa was a great experience all around. She is patient, intentional and has a great eye. I use her styling tips every day I get dressed and remember her professional advice when shopping!" -Katherine S.
New look. Same you.
“When I was ready to start dating after separating from my husband I was somewhat terrified and completely clueless about the dating app world. Alyssa helped me set up all my profiles advising me on which photos to use and what to say in my bio. And she shared so much of her own experiences which was so helpful in navigating this new landscape. I am so happy I connected with her. She’s my dating guru!” -K.K.
Explore your dating goals and understand your personality to define your style.
Get together, shop or sort through your closet to create refined, new looks for both your profile photos and real live dates.
Style your profile
Give your profile a genuine refresh with a biography and photos that look natural and make the right impression.
The styling process starts with an assessment of your current closet and personal style. This is when we discover how to make your clothes represent your personality. Buttoned up but not tied down? Dressed down but ready to show up? We’ll nail that together right from the start.
Once we’ve assessed your wardrobe and/or shopped, I will style looks for your profile photos and for your first few dates depending on the package you select. Your style will present the fine-tuned you want that we collaborated on from the start.
It’s not easy to write about yourself but your profile is key to initiating meaningful relationships. Together we’ll find the right words, craft a profile that stands out, and most importantly, stay true to who you are.
Once we’ve established a budget, I will pre-shop for you and you’ll meet me to try everything on — allowing you more time for swiping and less time shopping. Together we’ll pick outfits for your new profile pictures and looks for your first few face-to-face, zero emoji support, real-life dates.
Depending on your styling package, I’ll either give you photo taking tips or setup a true-to-you lifestyle shoot. The goal of these photos are to not only to show off your tailored new look, but give an inside look at who you are beyond the clothes.
Let's face it. We all doubt ourselves and especially before a date! Give me a call, FaceTime, Skype or text and I’ll give you the thumbs up or suggest some last minute changes to make sure you look your best.
“I was really hesitant to put up an online profile but after talking to Alyssa I decided I would give it a try. She first asked me some questions about what I felt comfortable with and what I was looking to get out of dating. After sharing my story we decided I should go on an app where the bio is a big part of the matching process. Alyssa then helped me choose the right photos to reflect who I am and then guided me through the bio writing process. With her help I felt much more confident putting up my profile. I’ve now been dating and one guy even said it was definitely my profile that hooked him!!” -Beth K.
"This Woman Knows What's Turning People Off About Your Online Dating Profile — And Gets Paid to Fix It"More
"...Alyssa Dineen has seen plenty of Tinder profiles that need a whole lot of work. A professional stylist, she is the founder of Style My Profile NYC, a service that helps online daters get the most out of dating apps."More
"I’m a veteran nyc stylist and started SMP to help other divorced women (and men) to feel good about themselves and get back out there."More
THE ONLINE DATING STYLIST
In the world of online dating, the content of your profile is your first impression: your potential matches swipe left or right in an instant based on images of you. Does this terrify you? If so, I can relate! With a lot of encouragement from friends I took the plunge into online and app dating post divorce. I quickly realized that so many potential dates could be great matches but they weren’t presenting themselves well, and that conversely, those people with a great photo were so clearly at an advantage.
And so that’s why I’m here – to make sure your profile presents you as your best self. As a personal stylist who has been in the fashion industry for more than 20 years, I have worked with all different personalities, body types and budgets. I know how to help you stay relevant and current while still feeling like yourself — the best version of yourself. Get in touch today and let’s find the styling package that suits you best!
“Life changing” -K.L