with Alyssa Dineen


Modern dating made easy with an expert personal stylist and dating coach.



Which App Should I Use?

Click here to take our dating app quiz


Would you describe online dating as: daunting, tedious, maddening, annoying or disappointing? If you answered yes to any (or all) of these, then you could probably use some support. 

Hi! I’m Alyssa Dineen and I’m a personal stylist and dating coach all rolled into one. I started Style My Profile to help other online daters feel better about getting out there— and staying out there— in the world of online dating. Whether it’s to meet your soulmate, to find a fun person to have dinner with or even just match with more people, I can help you from the ground up. From making the decision about whether you’re actually ready to online date, to finding your true-to-you style for your profile photos and IRL dates, to what to include in your profile, to actually asking someone out. 

With my 20 years of styling expertise, my art director eye, a soon-to-be-published book about online dating, and my own personal dating experience, I am able to coach online daters successfully through the foreign world of dating apps.

Want to Write the Perfect Bio?

Click here to download the free Meet Your Match bio tips & questionnaire 

“ There has definitely been a big improvement for me with online dating. In fact I’ve matched with so many people I’m interested in meeting I’ve had to pace myself! I’ve had some great dates and am continuing to explore. Thanks for all your expert feedback and the boost of confidence that resulted from talking this all through with you!”  H.R.

New look. Same you.

What Is Your Style Archetype?

Click here to take the quiz to see which of the six Style Archetypes you are!


After leaving my marriage at age 41, after being with my ex for nearly 18 years, I had no idea what I was in for. One of the things I told myself was: dating is going to be awesome! All my friends are going to set me up with their divorced guy friends and I’m going to be swimming in blind dates. Well, that happened once.  

A few months into being single, I realized I had to face the facts: I needed to online date to meet people. It took some trial and error to figure out which photos worked and which didn’t, what to write in my bio, and how to interact with potential dates. With my experience in the fashion and photography world, I was able to crack the code. And now I get to share what I learned with you.

Most people feel lost when it comes to online dating. That’s how I felt too. What I realized through my own experience and in working with all my clients is that we all feel the same way. I can help you wade through to get to the part where dating can actually be fun! 

“Working with Alyssa was a great experience all around. She is patient, intentional and has a great eye. I use her styling tips every day I get dressed and remember her professional advice when shopping!” -Katherine S.



A step-by-step online course with instructional videos, a Dating Diary and more.


Dynamic Dating Membership

Become part of the Style My Profile Community with member perks such as shopping discounts, guest experts, monthly Q&A with Alyssa, and more.

$129 annually or $19/month

Mindful Dating Group Workshop

A 6-week live group workshop with Alyssa.
This is for online daters who need to revitalize their profiles and boost their motivation!


The Styled Single

One-on-One VIP Style and Date Coaching with Alyssa 

Using a holistic approach to online dating, this experience includes: discussing dating goals, shopping and styling, editing and taking photos, bio writing, and date coaching.

“When I was ready to start dating after separating from my husband I was somewhat terrified and completely clueless about the dating app world. Alyssa helped me set up all my profiles advising me on which photos to use and what to say in my bio. And she shared so much of her own experiences which was so helpful in navigating this new landscape. I am so happy I connected with her. She’s my dating guru!”

art of online dating by Alyssa Dineen

Alyssas book, The Art of Online Dating, is now available to order!



I believe that online dating, just like everything else in life, needs to be approached in a mindful, intentional way. If you’re half-heartedly checking your dating app(s) a few times a month, it’s very unlikely you’ll be fulfilled by online dating.

I also believe in the age old adage that when you feel good, you look good and when you look good, you feel good. We can work from whatever point you are in your personal style journey. Whether it’s to revamp your whole wardrobe, or it’s to add just a few key pieces to make you feel confident and great when you step out the door.

I wholeheartedly feel that when we go all in on our dating vision and experience, we expand into greater possibilities and a deeper understanding of ourselves in the process.

“Alyssa is an excellent stylist. She effortlessly works within your price range and personal needs. She improved my wardrobe (and my style) immensely, and she’s a pleasure to work with.”
-Courtenay O.