Chatbots. All of a sudden, ChatGPT is dominating the news cycle. And as a dating coach, everyone's asking me: "Should I use a chatbot for dating?" I know it’s tempting, as people are using them for everything from travel itineraries to drafting cover letters. But my...
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Incognito Mode: Go undercover on your dating apps
I know some of you lead high-profile lives, and are reluctant to have information about yourself out there on dating apps. I also know some of you want to be on the apps, but want to just get the lay of the land before people start swiping on you and sending you...
What to Wear for Your Dating Profile Picture
You’ve heard me talk at length about what to wear on dates – there’s your First Date Uniform, of course, plus coffee date outfits and making a simple white button-down work for you date after date. But even if we have date outfits covered, that still leaves the...
Does Your Dating Profile Picture Say The Right Thing About You?
Let's talk about your dating profile picture. Remember when Facebook first became popular, and you spent SO much time choosing the best possible profile picture -- because who knew which old high school classmate, former boss, or long lost crush might look you up? You...
6 Ways to Make Sure Your Dating App Photographer Doesn’t Suck
Does the concept of hiring a designated “Dating App Photographer” sound a little… weird? Or scary? Or even corporate? Well, it can be if you pick the wrong one. A dating app photoshoot should feel very different from a LinkedIn photoshoot, or a family holiday card...
Revitalizing Online Dating
My friends at DatingNews.com just did a lovely profile on me — please check it out!It covers so much: the biggest mistakes I've seen people make on their profiles, how long your bio should be, a checklist of the exact photos you need, and more.Couldn't be more...
What Major Flaw Came Up In My “Perfect Relationship”
In the first few months of dating Yoav, amidst all the sweet texts, FaceTime calls while he was traveling, flowers greeting me when I got home from work, and talk of future plans, it came out that he never wanted to get married again 😳😳 (like actually “never”). I...
How To Write A Dating Profile
Am I a broken record yet about how originality is key when writing a dating profile? "Alyssa, we get it, you don't want me to say 'I love wine and travel' -- but I DO love wine and travel! Shouldn't I say so?" I maintain that you shouldn't -- and I've got some actual...
6 Secret Tinder Hacks (That Tinder Doesn’t Want You To Know)
Tinder Hacks: How to actually game Tinder’s AI. Tinder has a detailed algorithm at work – and they want you to use it to your advantage. After all, it’s in Tinder’s best interest for you to have a great in-app experience, get great matches, and become a total Tinder...
How Does Tinder Matching Work?
How does Tinder matching work? Well, as you know: There is an art to using Tinder. But guess what? There’s way more to it than the stuff you already know. You know you need to have more than just one or two photos. You know you need to have a bio. And ideally, your...

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