The Styled Single
One-on-One VIP Style and Date Coaching with Alyssa
The key to feeling good about online dating is feeling confident.
I use a holistic approach to online dating:
My knowledge as a successful online dater myself, combined with my 3+ years of working with clients, to discuss and assess what you really want out of dating
My 20+ years of styling and fashion experience to figure out your true-to-you style and what styles are best for your lifestyle and body type
My experience as an art director on photoshoots, to assess your current photos and decide next steps - whether it’s setting up a photo shoot remotely, helping choose a photographer, taking photos in person with my iPhone, or editing/retouching your existing photos
My experience as a writer to help you write a swipe-right bio. I send you a questionnaire and we set up a call to dive deep to find the real you that you want to project out into the world
My combined styling and coaching skills allow me to help you with any pre-date prep, whether it’s helping choose what to wear or deciding where to go, or deciding how to follow up with someone you’re interested in
“I thought that I wanted to try dating, but the whole process of going online overwhelmed me to the point that it prevented me from even trying. Alyssa was great! She helped me write a profile that set the right tone and still felt true to who I was, worked with me to choose a dating site that would be the best fit for what I wanted, and managed to make it all feel easy and not intimidating. I was so nervous to go shopping with Alyssa, and for her to go through my closet, but it was awesome! Alyssa helped me put together a few really stylish and flattering outfits that make me feel great. And, with a few new things, it was easy to let go of some older, worn out and ill-fitting clothes. The whole experience really made me feel like I was starting a new (more stylish!) chapter in my life.” -Hope K.
How it works
The process starts with an assessment of your dating goals, current closet and personal style. This is when we discover what you are really looking for and how best to represent your personality. Buttoned up but not tied down? Dressed down but ready to show up? We’ll nail that together right from the start to make sure you’re attracting the right matches for you.
Shop and Style
Once we’ve established what you need to round out your wardrobe and feel great about yourself, I will pre-shop for you and you’ll meet me to try everything on in person — allowing you more time for swiping and less time shopping. Or if we’re working remotely, I will carefully choose pieces for you online and send you links to order, keeping your budget in mind. Together we’ll pick outfits for your new profile pictures and looks for your first few face-to-face, real-life dates. Your style will present the fine-tuned you that we collaborated on from the start.
It’s not easy to write about yourself, but your profile is key to initiating meaningful relationships. Together we’ll find the right words, craft a profile that stands out, and most importantly, stay true to who you are.
Let’s face it, we all doubt ourselves – especially before a date! Give me a call, FaceTime, Zoom or text and I’ll give you the thumbs up or suggest some last minute changes to make sure you look your best. We’ll make sure you’re feeling the best you can before that date.
“Alyssa is a highly skilled personal stylist who has a great eye for how to present oneself in an online profile. Her selection of the particular clothing pieces to wear in each photo, her selection of the site for each photo (indoor and outdoor), her sense for lighting, body positioning and posing, etc. were terrific. The pictures she took were of professional quality and had a very natural, comfortable look to them! Additionally, she was extremely helpful in editing my existing written profiles for various online dating sites, and her editing instincts enhanced my written profile considerably. In fact, I received several unsolicited emails from women who remarked that my written profile was the best they had seen! The results speak for themselves. The response to my “restyled” profiles was immediate and overwhelmingly positive. I received considerably more views from women than previously, and a much greater proportion of my emails to women generated replies than I previously experienced. I can’t recommend Alyssa highly enough!” -Richard C.