Online Dating Advice

If you’ve ever wondered why someone would bring in a dating coach, it’s not because they can’t “do it themselves.” It’s because dating — especially online — has become its own strange little ecosystem, and having someone who knows the terrain can make a world of...

Like my ​caftans​, I noticed this summer that my beach totes are looking pretty ratty and should probably throw them away 🫣 But I did find this one in the back of my closet and it always felt a bit big but now I’m kind of loving the oversized look. I showed it to a...

I am SO excited to announce my new limited series podcast, The Dating Lab! There are, of course, a lot of dating podcasts out there. But I felt that what was missing was something specifically instructional. How do I employ time-saving habits on...

I’ve been a fan of the horizontal striped shirt for decades. It started when I was working on a photo shoot and pulled a Saint James traditional Breton striped one and fell in love. This was circa 2004. It was boxy and had a dropped shoulder and I wore that...

Maybe you’ve seen the summer 2025 trend of wearing tall boots (think riding boots, cowboy boots, or any variation that hits just below the knee) with shorts of varying lengths. Maybe you saw it on the ‘gram, maybe it was on a fashion blog, or maybe it was even on the...

Do you ever pull something out of your closet or drawer and suddenly put a date on when you bought it? I can always put a general time stamp on things based on: the year each of my kids were born, when I got divorced, when I met Yoav, and Covid. Well I finally (yes in...

There are many new people here so I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself and tell you how and why I am here as a (reliable) dating expert. And for those of you who have been here a while, maybe there’s something you didn’t know about me 😉 I started Style My...

Guys, I finally found some cut off jean shorts that don’t make me feel like I’m stealing my teenager daughter’s! They are not-too-short, no other rips or tears, and come in black which also makes them feel a bit more polished than a faded denim. AYR - The Sure Sure...

Entering or reentering dating in middle age is daunting for all kinds of reasons (as I very much know first hand). All the time I hear people saying "I'm too old for this." But — and I mean this from the bottom of my heart — dating in your 40s and beyond is so...

Online dating! At times so exciting… and at times so fraught. I’m a big proponent of taking dating breaks. That kind of advice is maybe not great for my business model 🙃 But when I see clients and friends reaching a certain level of frustrated, that’s really...