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So many of you have reached out to say you loved hearing Kate Anthony's story on the second episode of The Dating Lab — I'm so touched!! Kate and I talk a lot about her Hinge profile on the episode, so as a bonus, I'm giving you a look at her A+ profile here. What...
Episode 2 of my podcast The Dating Lab is LIVE! This one is really special to me. Many of you may independently know Kate Anthony from her own podcast, The Divorce Survival Guide. When Kate decided to dip a toe back into online dating after an 8-year hiatus, she...
It’s nearing the end of summer and I’ll be honest, I’ve been having fun doing these weekly style emails this summer! And fall is my fashion sweet spot so these will continue in the coming weeks and months where I’ll be putting out lots of new fall trends, outfit...
The summer's winding down already (where did it go so fast??), so before we're all in Labor Day Weekend mode next week, I thought I should send out a little summer recap! This past summer... ...I reintroduced myself and went into more detail about my love story than...
A few of you asked after last week’s newsletter where I got the skirt I was wearing with my oversized beach bag (photo below). Well, I’m glad you asked because it’s a scarf/sarong/pareo worn as a miniskirt and it’s super easy to do. I have recently gotten back into...
If you’ve ever wondered why someone would bring in a dating coach, it’s not because they can’t “do it themselves.” It’s because dating — especially online — has become its own strange little ecosystem, and having someone who knows the terrain can make a world of...
Like my caftans, I noticed this summer that my beach totes are looking pretty ratty and should probably throw them away 🫣 But I did find this one in the back of my closet and it always felt a bit big but now I’m kind of loving the oversized look. I showed it to a...
I am SO excited to announce my new limited series podcast, The Dating Lab! There are, of course, a lot of dating podcasts out there. But I felt that what was missing was something specifically instructional. How do I employ time-saving habits on...
I’ve been a fan of the horizontal striped shirt for decades. It started when I was working on a photo shoot and pulled a Saint James traditional Breton striped one and fell in love. This was circa 2004. It was boxy and had a dropped shoulder and I wore that...
Maybe you’ve seen the summer 2025 trend of wearing tall boots (think riding boots, cowboy boots, or any variation that hits just below the knee) with shorts of varying lengths. Maybe you saw it on the ‘gram, maybe it was on a fashion blog, or maybe it was even on the...

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