Online Dating Advice

To wind down the summer, we thought we'd take a look back at a few of the most popular newsletters so far this year! In case you missed them... 1. For When You're Writing Your Profile We walk you through how to pick the best Bumble Prompts (or Hinge, or Tinder),...

Katherine here, doing an SMP takeover! Success story alert - I got engaged to my wonderful partner of 2.5 years last week! But no, I’m not one of Alyssa’s clients exactly… I’m actually a coach on the SMP team. Working for Alyssa for the last 4 years has meant 4...

When I work one-on-one with clients, there’s a feature on Hinge and Bumble that I tell each client not to use. Today, I’m going to share it with all of you, and it’s going to make you more efficient and effective than ever on the apps. Ready? You know these tabs...

How did you fare on the viral New York Times 100 Best Books of the 21st Century? I won't reveal my actual count out of mild embarrassment... suffice it to say, my Goodreads queue is now extremely long. Over at Style My Profile, we have our own list: The 7 Best...

Many of you are new to the Style My Profile community - WELCOME! 🤗 In the past few weeks and months I've seen a bunch of you join on, thanks in large part to our friends over at Burned Haystack, WTF Divorce, and Divorced Girl Smiling (and...

I wrote a guest blog this week for my amazing friend Jackie Pilossoph over at Divorced Girl Smiling. If you're a divorced woman looking for all the divorce resources you could want—articles, trusted professionals, consultations, you name it—look no further. As...

I hope you've been ​practicing your flirting​, because as promised, this week I'm sending you great events for meeting singles IRL in 6 major U.S. cities. I've talked before about my ​love of using Eventbrite as a tool​ for finding singles events. As I explained in...

Ready for a shocking statement? Flirting is easy. WHAT?!?!?!?!? Then why have there been years worth of magazine articles and books published on how to flirt? Why does a friend nudging you and saying "go over there and flirt with him!" immediately make your palms...

If you've just joined the Style My Profile Community in the last few weeks — welcome!! I hope you've been learning some helpful things from our last several blogs (I'll link them down below if you missed them). I'm so, so excited about our lineup for the next few...

In the last couple of weeks, not one, but two people told me they’d matched with and were chatting with people who didn’t like the beach, and that that was a dealbreaker to them. This is going to be a controversial opinion: I think the only fundamental...