I Felt Lonely, Too.

When I got divorced and started online dating, one of the biggest things I felt was lonely.

And no, that didn’t mean I missed my ex-husband (not by a long shot). It meant that I was just truly alone in a new phase of my life for the first time in decades. It’s normal to feel lonely after divorce! All my friends were married, hardly anyone I knew my age was on dating apps, and I had to forge my way all by myself, with no one to compare notes with, bounce ideas off of, ask advice from, or just generally feel kinship with.

I started Style My Profile in the first place because I wanted to offer guidance and support to other online daters who were feeling alone.

But through coaching so many amazing individuals, I’ve come to realize that I hold the keys to the very best resource of all — all of you!

In all my years of coaching, there has been nothing so fulfilling and exciting as the group coaching sessions I’ve been doing for the last 6 months. Watching the women in these small groups uplift each other, be brave together, share struggles together, and not feel alone in online dating is completely singular. If you’re feeling alone in your online dating experience, I want you to know we’re here for you! I hope you’ll join us.

Hear from women who have taken part in group coaching explain how not having to go it alone has made all the difference:

This group, composed of kind, thoughtful intelligent women and guided by Alyssa and her team, has helped me so much. Online dating isn’t easy but having this group’s support made the experience so much better & even lighter than going at it alone. I highly recommend it!
-Jenny M.

Alyssa’s group introduced me to a group of women who are all starting over, and understand the new reality. Sharing dating stories in a warm, safe space, and listening to Alyssa’s smart, gentle guidance has been a game changer for me. I’m learning and laughing, and much more lighthearted about the new dating game.

I feel comfortable sharing anything with our group, no matter how personal. I’ve learned so much from Alyssa and our group of intrepid women!
-Beth K.

Put an end to your dating loneliness and come join a true community. Get answers to all of your questions about what the group entails at our Meet Your Match Group Coaching page (hint: you get a lot), and then book a call with me here to chat through whether joining the group is right for you. Our next session is starting in May and I hope you can join!

With love,


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Hi! I’m Alyssa Dineen and I’m a personal stylist and dating coach all rolled into one. I started Style My Profile to help other online daters feel better about getting out there— and staying out there— in the world of online dating. Whether it’s to meet your soulmate, to find a fun person to have dinner with or even just match with more people, I can help you from the ground up.


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