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In the last blog, we talked about red flags... but knowing how to spot green flags is just as important! Let's get into all the green flags I look for on Hinge. Online dating can sometimes feel like searching for a needle in a...
Here's my disclaimer: I'm all about matching with people who aren't your typical "type," giving people the chance to make a good in-person impression even if their profile isn't the most amazing one you've ever seen, and generally looking for the best in others. BUT....
I want to talk about long distance relationships. Don't stop reading! I'm living proof that they're not as scary as you think. I often hear from clients, “I don’t want to have to drive 45 minutes to be able to see someone.” Or worse: “I’m looking for someone who lives...
This might be one of the most important blogs I've ever written — because if you're on Hinge, I can almost guarantee you're using your Hinge Dealbreakers and Preferences wrong. (Especially if you're paying for Hinge Premium!) Hinge is great — it gives you a lot of...
It's time to start using Hinge's most underrated feature: Hinge voice prompts. Seriously -- it's time right now! If you're in a quiet place, pull out your phone and record one right here, right now. It's the single fastest thing you can do to make your...
You've heard me say this before: to be a successful dater and attract true love, you need to ask lots of questions, have an open heart, and be vulnerable. I dug into this with a guest blog on YourTango, sharing the main 5 ingredients you need to kindle a lasting...
Warning: watching this gif will give you Tinder-bio-writing anxiety. Yeah. The quickest way to feel like the most boring person in the world? Try to write a Tinder bio from scratch. It is freaking TOUGH to face that blank text box and blinking cursor! It's as though...
Go with me here — I think there are two scenarios where you might reeeaallllyy benefit from getting yourself a blank Tinder bio template. Recognize yourself in either of these? Number 1: You've taken the plunge and recently downloaded a dating app!...
Have you heard about this viral "dating spreadsheet" trend? It stems from this TikTok from 2 years ago, showing a data-driven approach to the creator's dating life. She tracked all of her dates in a spreadsheet, and created pie charts, graphs, and curves to elucidate...
Chatbots. All of a sudden, ChatGPT is dominating the news cycle. And as a dating coach, everyone's asking me: "Should I use a chatbot for dating?" I know it’s tempting, as people are using them for everything from travel itineraries to drafting cover letters. But my...

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