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You've heard me say this before: to be a successful dater and attract true love, you need to ask lots of questions, have an open heart, and be vulnerable. I dug into this with a guest blog on YourTango, sharing the main 5 ingredients you need to kindle a lasting...
Warning: watching this gif will give you Tinder-bio-writing anxiety. Yeah. The quickest way to feel like the most boring person in the world? Try to write a Tinder bio from scratch. It is freaking TOUGH to face that blank text box and blinking cursor! It's as though...
Go with me here — I think there are two scenarios where you might reeeaallllyy benefit from getting yourself a blank Tinder bio template. Recognize yourself in either of these? Number 1: You've taken the plunge and recently downloaded a dating app!...
Have you heard about this viral "dating spreadsheet" trend? It stems from this TikTok from 2 years ago, showing a data-driven approach to the creator's dating life. She tracked all of her dates in a spreadsheet, and created pie charts, graphs, and curves to elucidate...
Chatbots. All of a sudden, ChatGPT is dominating the news cycle. And as a dating coach, everyone's asking me: "Should I use a chatbot for dating?" I know it’s tempting, as people are using them for everything from travel itineraries to drafting cover letters. But my...
I know some of you lead high-profile lives, and are reluctant to have information about yourself out there on dating apps. I also know some of you want to be on the apps, but want to just get the lay of the land before people start swiping on you and sending you...
You’ve heard me talk at length about what to wear on dates – there’s your First Date Uniform, of course, plus coffee date outfits and making a simple white button-down work for you date after date. But even if we have date outfits covered, that still leaves the...
Let's talk about your dating profile picture. Remember when Facebook first became popular, and you spent SO much time choosing the best possible profile picture -- because who knew which old high school classmate, former boss, or long lost crush might look you up? You...
Does the concept of hiring a designated “Dating App Photographer” sound a little… weird? Or scary? Or even corporate? Well, it can be if you pick the wrong one. A dating app photoshoot should feel very different from a LinkedIn photoshoot, or a family holiday card...
Dating burnout, just like emotional burnout or burnout at your job, is real. We saw all the headlines this fall – people are burning out at work, so they’re “quiet quitting,” or essentially keeping work strictly within the confines of the work day and not drastically...

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