Online Dating Advice

I’m always here to keep you updated on most recent hot button topics and questions that come up about online dating. So here’s one that’s been coming up constantly with my clients: “What is "Sex positivity"? What does it mean when someone lists “Sex...

Welcome to Part 2 of our “How to Meet Singles IRL” series! Last week, we talked about the exact script and psychology you need to employ in order to get your friends to set you up. This week, we’re getting into where to go to meet singles in real life — and it’s...

You guys all know — I’ve built my business around online dating. I believe in dating apps wholeheartedly as a proven, effective tool for going on dates and ultimately, hopefully, for meeting your perfect match. So what you might not realize is: I’m a huge believer in...

I’ve been reflecting a lot recently on online dating stamina. I read so many posts in my own Facebook group, plus the dozens of other dating groups and articles and threads I follow, plus the constant chorus of my clients and my friends—and it’s all a version of “I’ve...

In case you missed it in the headlines recently: Bumble's got a brand new look! We've been preaching the Bumble gospel over at SMP for years, but now there's even more reason to be on the app. They've got a slightly updated design so it's clearer than ever to navigate...

Now that spring is actually finally here, I’m sure many of you are feeling more inspired to get out into the dating world again if you’ve taken a break. Or even if you haven’t paused, spring is the perfect time to refresh and give your profile some new...

I want to introduce you to another SMP team member: our bio writer extraordinaire and coach, Max! So many of you who have worked with me already know (and love) Max. Max is the type of person who has that rare ability to ask questions that get you to reveal the most...

When I got divorced and started online dating, one of the biggest things I felt was lonely. And no, that didn't mean I missed my ex-husband (not by a long shot). It meant that I was just truly alone in a new phase of my life for the first time in decades. It's...

I had the honor to chat with my friend T.H. Irwin over at exEXPERTS recently, and let me tell you, we had a blast. Like me, she went through a divorce, put on a brave face and got back out there in the dating world (she has some stories!), and ultimately found her...

Boo! 👻 No, that's not the kind of ghost that online daters are worried about. We're worried about the kind where you talk and talk to someone, or maybe even go out with someone, and then *poof*! Like a ghost, they suddenly vanish without a word. I've compiled a list...