Online Dating Advice

I wrote a guest blog this week for my amazing friend Jackie Pilossoph over at Divorced Girl Smiling. If you're a divorced woman looking for all the divorce resources you could want—articles, trusted professionals, consultations, you name it—look no further. As...

I hope you've been ​practicing your flirting​, because as promised, this week I'm sending you great events for meeting singles IRL in 6 major U.S. cities. I've talked before about my ​love of using Eventbrite as a tool​ for finding singles events. As I explained in...

Ready for a shocking statement? Flirting is easy. WHAT?!?!?!?!? Then why have there been years worth of magazine articles and books published on how to flirt? Why does a friend nudging you and saying "go over there and flirt with him!" immediately make your palms...

If you've just joined the Style My Profile Community in the last few weeks — welcome!! I hope you've been learning some helpful things from our last several blogs (I'll link them down below if you missed them). I'm so, so excited about our lineup for the next few...

In the last couple of weeks, not one, but two people told me they’d matched with and were chatting with people who didn’t like the beach, and that that was a dealbreaker to them. This is going to be a controversial opinion: I think the only fundamental...

I’m always here to keep you updated on most recent hot button topics and questions that come up about online dating. So here’s one that’s been coming up constantly with my clients: “What is "Sex positivity"? What does it mean when someone lists “Sex...

Welcome to Part 2 of our “How to Meet Singles IRL” series! Last week, we talked about the exact script and psychology you need to employ in order to get your friends to set you up. This week, we’re getting into where to go to meet singles in real life — and it’s...

You guys all know — I’ve built my business around online dating. I believe in dating apps wholeheartedly as a proven, effective tool for going on dates and ultimately, hopefully, for meeting your perfect match. So what you might not realize is: I’m a huge believer in...

I’ve been reflecting a lot recently on online dating stamina. I read so many posts in my own Facebook group, plus the dozens of other dating groups and articles and threads I follow, plus the constant chorus of my clients and my friends—and it’s all a version of “I’ve...

In case you missed it in the headlines recently: Bumble's got a brand new look! We've been preaching the Bumble gospel over at SMP for years, but now there's even more reason to be on the app. They've got a slightly updated design so it's clearer than ever to navigate...