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Don’t you wish I could tell you exactly what to write when reaching out to a new match to get the conversation started? Or even just any response at all? Conversation Starters on Hinge - Introducing Opening Lines One of the top questions I get asked about online...
Imagine a world where you could go on a date, and then get immediate, line-by-line feedback from a dating coach about your date habits, and what you might not even know you're doing that's preventing you from getting to that second date. What if you could do this......
Why You Need Dating App Photos There is nothing, I repeat, nothing worse you can do on your dating app profile than have only one or two photos. I spent at least a month or two making that mistake–I had 3 photos and even that wasn’t enough–but as soon as I filled up...
Hey Everyone, It’s nice to meet you! My name is Katherine — I’ve been on the SMP team for 2 years, and today I’m taking over the blog to tell a little success story of my own.I online dated a LOT in the last 8 years — enough that I truly believed I could tell if...
How the blank Tinder profile template started One fateful night, roughly 7 ½ years ago, I sat at a bare-bones bar with a single friend who grabbed my phone and within minutes downloaded Tinder and uploaded the few photos I had without my kids. She said I didn’t...
You’ve downloaded Hinge and Bumble. You’ve picked your photos and framed them just right. Now the list of short-answer prompts is staring you down and you’re gripped with writer’s block. What do you do?? What are the best Hinge and Bumble prompt answers? I’ll...
Mindful Dating 101 I was completely clueless about how to online date when I separated from my husband at age 41. I’d been with my ex since college, long (long!) before texting and dating apps existed, so I was ill-prepared for what lay ahead. But I made dating my...
Hey Everyone, Whether you have an hour this week to spend on dating advice or only 2 minutes, I've got you covered! If you have an hour... On your commute to work or while out running errands, pop on this podcast from Journey Beyond Divorce. I talk about all...
Hey Everyone, Guess what: science says we've been taking selfies all wrong. You look in a mirror and you're like: I look amazing! You take a selfie, and suddenly you're noticing things you didn't see before: your nose looks big, your cheeks look wide, it's almost like...
Hey Everyone, You may have heard the story about when I wanted to start online dating but didn’t know which app to try or what to put on there or what to write (sound familiar, anyone?). I enlisted a single friend to hold my hand through the process. She...

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