Online Dating Advice

I used to play a game with my friends in college called Perfect Man/Perfect Woman. The concept was pretty simple: imagine your perfect man or perfect woman, like your soulmate, but.... they have x, y, or z flaw. Would that be a dealbreaker for...

I was lucky enough to attend the 2-day Global Love Conference here in NYC last week (pictured above: what I wore and where I went 😊). And boy did I learn A LOT! I listened to experts talking about communication and conversation skills, sex & dating, trends in the...

There are THOUSANDS of dating coaches out there now. When I started my business over 7 years ago, I was one of the few online-dating-specific coaches out there. Now, they're a dime a dozen! And because of that, it’s hard to know who is legitimate and who is selling...

Thinking optimistically that spring is almost here? Let's will it into action with two spring trends I’ve fallen for: The Denim Trench and Butter Yellow. Trend #1Denim Trench (Shop the look at ​LTK​ or ​ShopMy​)​ A denim trench seems to go with everything. I actually...

If you’re in my Facebook group you may have already seen this success story. It’s such a good one! You may know Kate Anthony independently as the founder of ​Divorce Survival Guide​. She's a divorce coach and has the ​#1 divorce podcast in the world​. But turns out...

This week we’re shaking things up (and I mean really shaking things up 😉) with a guest blog by my friend, colleague, and sex wellness expert, Karen Bigman of ​Taboo to Truth​. I love her raw honesty about all things sexual health and learn a lot from her. You can...

As many of you know, I write guest blogs for my friend Jackie Pilossoph over at ​Divorced Girl Smiling​ from time to time—especially when there's advice that's so important, I want it to reach as many people as possible. This time, it's about taking the whole mess of...

When I work with clients one-on-one, I do all of the quote unquote "hard" stuff for you. I choose which apps you should be on, which photos to use in exactly which order, and my writer literally writes your bios and prompts for you. You plug everything into your...

You know how much I champion getting off the apps and going on that date (see ​Number 5​). But I'm also realistic. It doesn't always feel great to give a stranger your personal phone number. I can't tell you how many clients have asked me for help setting up a Google...

Here's the quickest possible way to understand what's working on your Hinge profile and what's not: KEEP TRACK. Draw yourself a little template that looks like this:​ I personally like to use a notebook so I can write in it while looking at Hinge,...