I want to introduce you to another SMP team member: our bio writer extraordinaire and coach, Max! So many of you who have worked with me already know (and love) Max. Max is the type of person who has that rare ability to ask questions that get you to reveal the most...
Dating Tips Articles
Learn tips and tricks to navigate the dating world.
I Felt Lonely, Too.
When I got divorced and started online dating, one of the biggest things I felt was lonely. And no, that didn't mean I missed my ex-husband (not by a long shot). It meant that I was just truly alone in a new phase of my life for the first time in decades. It's...
Divorce, Fresh Starts, & Breaking Molds
I had the honor to chat with my friend T.H. Irwin over at exEXPERTS recently, and let me tell you, we had a blast. Like me, she went through a divorce, put on a brave face and got back out there in the dating world (she has some stories!), and ultimately found her...
The 12 Most Important Things To Know About Ghosting
Boo! 👻 No, that's not the kind of ghost that online daters are worried about. We're worried about the kind where you talk and talk to someone, or maybe even go out with someone, and then *poof*! Like a ghost, they suddenly vanish without a word. I've compiled a list...
The Top 6 Rules for Messaging on a Dating App
Checked out my Empowered Women Facebook group yet? I do a weekly Facebook Live where I cover topics YOU'VE asked me about. This past week, I went in on the thing that can stymie even the most seasoned of daters: messaging. Messaging on a dating app is...
Unveiling the 13 Best Bumble Prompts & How To Answer Them
If you’re on multiple dating apps, I’m willing to bet you’re on Bumble (and if you’re not, download it right now!). Bumble is one of the most popular apps out there, because it appeals to a diverse range of users and couldn’t be more user-friendly – or more likely...
How Do I Get My Match To Ask ME Questions? Here Are 3 Ways.
I bet every single one of you has had this exact experience... You're messaging with a new match, you're bantering a little, you're asking some questions to get to know them. They answer everything you ask! They seem interesting! And then you realize... wait, they're...
Am I Being Love Bombed, Or Does He Just Really Like Me?
2023 was the year of love bombing. No, it's not a new concept (unfortunately, narcissists have been working their tricks forever), but love bombing suddenly became a regular headline topic this past year. Article after article details how to recognize love bombing,...
How I Found My Apartment (And My Partner)
How is finding a NYC apartment just like online dating? No, the answer is not "both are miserable" 😅 I'm one of the SMP coaches, Katherine. My boyfriend and I are moving in together (read about how finally practicing what I preach as a coach led to us falling in...
Westchester Daters: You Need To Go On The Best Westchester Dates
A few weeks ago, we gave you the comprehensive list of where to go on a date in NYC. Now: where to go on a date in Westchester! Westchester covers a lot of area, and our dates do too — both in location and activity type. This list of the best Westchester dates is...
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