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Incognito Mode: Go undercover on your dating apps
I know some of you lead high-profile lives, and are reluctant to have information about yourself out there on dating apps. I also know some of you want to be on the apps, but want to just get the lay of the land before people start swiping on you and sending you...
What to Wear for Your Dating Profile Picture
You’ve heard me talk at length about what to wear on dates – there’s your First Date Uniform, of course, plus coffee date outfits and making a simple white button-down work for you date after date. But even if we have date outfits covered, that still leaves the...
Does Your Dating Profile Picture Say The Right Thing About You?
Let's talk about your dating profile picture. Remember when Facebook first became popular, and you spent SO much time choosing the best possible profile picture -- because who knew which old high school classmate, former boss, or long lost crush might look you up? You...
6 Ways to Make Sure Your Dating App Photographer Doesn’t Suck
Does the concept of hiring a designated “Dating App Photographer” sound a little… weird? Or scary? Or even corporate? Well, it can be if you pick the wrong one. A dating app photoshoot should feel very different from a LinkedIn photoshoot, or a family holiday card...
How To Avoid Dating Burnout
Dating burnout, just like emotional burnout or burnout at your job, is real. We saw all the headlines this fall – people are burning out at work, so they’re “quiet quitting,” or essentially keeping work strictly within the confines of the work day and not drastically...
Revitalizing Online Dating
My friends at DatingNews.com just did a lovely profile on me — please check it out!It covers so much: the biggest mistakes I've seen people make on their profiles, how long your bio should be, a checklist of the exact photos you need, and more.Couldn't be more...
What Major Flaw Came Up In My “Perfect Relationship”
In the first few months of dating Yoav, amidst all the sweet texts, FaceTime calls while he was traveling, flowers greeting me when I got home from work, and talk of future plans, it came out that he never wanted to get married again 😳😳 (like actually “never”). I...
How To Write A Dating Profile
Am I a broken record yet about how originality is key when writing a dating profile? "Alyssa, we get it, you don't want me to say 'I love wine and travel' -- but I DO love wine and travel! Shouldn't I say so?" I maintain that you shouldn't -- and I've got some actual...
Trenches for Women in 2022
Style Fall 2022: Trench Coats for Women The trench coat is having a moment and boy is it good! I am loving all the iterations, although I’m a pretty die hard fan of the classic trench in a khaki 😉 Check out my Trenches for Women edit below! Under $2000 KHAITE...
6 Secret Tinder Hacks (That Tinder Doesn’t Want You To Know)
Tinder Hacks: How to actually game Tinder’s AI. Tinder has a detailed algorithm at work – and they want you to use it to your advantage. After all, it’s in Tinder’s best interest for you to have a great in-app experience, get great matches, and become a total Tinder...
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Hi! I’m Alyssa Dineen and I’m a personal stylist and dating coach all rolled into one. I started Style My Profile to help other online daters feel better about getting out there— and staying out there— in the world of online dating. Whether it’s to meet your soulmate, to find a fun person to have dinner with or even just match with more people, I can help you from the ground up.
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