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Big Announcement: I Wrote A Book!
Hey Everyone, I can't believe I'm finally getting to announce that my book is available for pre-order! The Art of Online Dating is the result of my copious journaling during my years of dating after divorce and then starting Style My Profile to help other online...
The Biggest Secret to Successful Dating
Hey Everyone, Wanna know the biggest secret to successful dating?? Ask lots of questions! I went on 100s of dates, and what I noticed was this: I left feeling the best when I felt we were both equally interested in what the other person's story was. And you get...
Filter Off: Speed dating, but make it video
Hey Everyone, I feel like summer is absolutely flying by! I'm filling my days with reconnecting with friends over coffees and dinners, going back to my yoga studio, taking weekend trips—it even feels exciting to finally run all the errands that I couldn't do during...
The Selfie Checklist
Hey Everyone, I'll level with you: Gen Zers were born knowing how to take the perfect selfie, and anyone older than them... was not. But good news! Even if you didn't know how to use an iPhone before you could walk, you can still learn to take the perfect selfie....
The Matchmaker’s Database You Can Join For Free
Hey Everyone, I want to spread the word about DateSpot, a new tool used by both singles and matchmakers alike that is completely free to join. It sounded almost too good to be true when I learned about it from the founder, Carla Swiryn, but here’s how it works: ...
Dating By The Numbers
Hey Everyone, Ever wondered how many people actually use dating apps? Or what the real success rate is of meeting a partner online? Take a look at some stats below!By The Numbers 30% of U.S. adults have used dating apps (that's about 100,000,000 people!)12%...
You got a text from your ex… Now what?
Hey Everyone, Your phone buzzes with a text. You check the sender. It’s your ex, wanting to meet up. What do you do? Here are my 3 pieces of advice: Wait 24 hours to respond. Seeing an ex’s name pop up in your texts or email is going to flood your body with...
The #1 Change to Make to Your Profile
Hey Everyone, If I could give everyone only one piece of advice for their profiles, it would be: SMILE! Too many clients come to me with profiles full of photos with sexy pouts, serene, far-off looks, or tough-guy intensity. But take it from someone who's...
When Should You Get Intimate?
Hey Everyone, Wondering when the right time is to get intimate with a new partner? Check out this clip from the eye-opening discussion I had with esteemed author and sex therapist Dr. Lonnie Barbach to hear her expert opinion on when to take things to that next level....
Hear What Other Daters Have To Say
Hey Everyone, In case you missed it... in addition to the Mindful Dating 101 course, I just launched a new Mindful Dating Group Workshop, where I will work with a small group over 6 weeks to rework every single person's profile (photos, styling, and bios) and have...
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Hi! I’m Alyssa Dineen and I’m a personal stylist and dating coach all rolled into one. I started Style My Profile to help other online daters feel better about getting out there— and staying out there— in the world of online dating. Whether it’s to meet your soulmate, to find a fun person to have dinner with or even just match with more people, I can help you from the ground up.
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